By Benedict and Edel Sakwa
Gender-Based Violence (GBV) is a pervasive issue with far-reaching consequences for individuals, families, and society. It often starts subtly within family dynamics and, if unchecked, escalates into harmful behavior. An example is a domestic incident where our young boy almost resorted to violence over a minor dispute with his sister. We intervened as parents, teaching him that violence is not an acceptable response, while reflecting how early guidance is vital in shaping attitudes toward conflict and respect within families.
Jubilee of Families
The family plays a central role in instilling values, as emphasized during the Vatican’s Jubilee of Families on June 1st, 2025. Pope Leo XIV highlighted the importance of the family as a space of faith, love, and reconciliation. He reiterated that within the family moral foundations are laid, love is nurtured, and respect for human dignity is taught. When these values are lost or neglected, families become breeding grounds for violence rather than safe havens.
GBV core causes and Impact to affected
Men and women: The core of GBV lies in the erosion of love and humanity. As individuals drift away from compassion and mutual respect, they lose hope and connection with others. Any disconnect fosters conditions for violence, including lack of respect for oneself and others. GBV affects men and women differently. Women are often vocal about their suffering, while men may endure silently due to societal expectations tied to masculinity. Both genders experience trauma, social stigma, and potential economic loss, especially if the abused is the family’s breadwinner.
Children: Whether direct or otherwise, victims or witnesses of GBV, suffer long-term effects. Exposure during formative years can lead to behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). These effects can persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and the ability to function normally in society.
Societal level: GBV causes significant harm. It leads to economic losses due to reduced productivity and medical expenses, while also perpetuating social instability. A culture of fear and silence may emerge, particularly affecting women and girls, who face limited access to education and employment opportunities. GBV is not only a personal issue but also a national concern that hinders development and progress.
GBV preventive measures
To address GBV effectively, preventive measures must start within the family and extend to the community. First, individuals must recognize their moral failings and strive to restore the divine love instilled in every human being. Forgiveness, compassion, and active listening are essential behaviors that can prevent conflict and promote healing.
Communities must become proactive in supporting GBV prevention efforts. This includes being vigilant, reporting abuse, and fostering a culture of respect. Survivors need easy access to support services such as counseling, legal aid, and healthcare, tailored to the type of violence experienced.
Furthermore, judicial systems must enforce deterrent penalties and ensure perpetrators are held accountable. Addressing underlying causes like gender inequality and regressive social norms is crucial. Society must acknowledge that all humans, regardless of gender, are created in God’s image and deserve equal respect and dignity.
In conclusion, ending GBV requires collective action rooted in love, faith, justice, and equality. Only then can families and societies thrive in harmony and peace.
